Although I have not yet 28 years old, of course, impossible for 28-year-old when the first time I saw my father, but watching film, listening to Jaden Smith Cute childish, when suddenly there is a very wanted a child, and then take good care of his impulses. When Jaden Smith, together with the father slept toilets is not complaining, and even put forward again to this "hole" sleep time; when he was stare at the grocery store where snacks, when the father asked when he himself must not be the and other circumstances such as these, I would have been repeating a word in my heart, I really sensible ah, I really sensible ah.
The wife to leave, is a choice, you can blame a sale because the husband did not sell anything, but for four weeks at home every day, a woman connected to the two classes Mody? Her departure is definitely not aspire to vanity so materialistic, and she has to bear a lot of women may not be able to afford things. Choking on the phone before, more a life of despair. From the film at the end of speculation, in fact, she stays a few months again as long as you can, but it is fair to surmise from the results, real life, how many people's life is a written script of a happy ending? Vicissitudes of life are derived from the unknown. Life is often much more complex than the film,
Chris Gardner's success just shows that more people in this world is a failure, because most people fail before they bring out the success of some minority of people so precious, so dazzling. If you are successful people all over the world, success has given us the word would not be touched by so many. I can now finally understand that there is no way those who go on to marriage, is not necessarily a heinous which side and which side should have been cast aside, and stood together in life or not to walk, two people have the right to choose at any time. Of course, the wife has been family and her husband as the center, is certainly most of the men of the
希望. But I personally think that, no matter how difficult life, for our children, should carry on, just as 28-year-old did not see a father Chris Gardner's insistence, as the mother must also let the child know who he is, whether it is life In the hut or the palace, a complete family for the child is an unparalleled wealth.
The film is certainly inspirational classic, how many times a basket case, how many times homeless, and ultimately thoroughly transform. Nowhere to go and sleep in the toilet crying shame suffering, the church door in order to fight a relief to bed with the homeless gaffe bickering off the night at the police station the next day flew to his head is the first day of the interview also wore decorated stained paint, ... ... a number of bitter and relentless details of life, was admitted in the final moment was Nabu Wen book into a trembling hand, how many people do not at this moment, together with Chris Gardner silently weeping? But I do not know how many people see the film will be more firmly their own dreams,
Would have confidence in sales and stocks in this industry. All the difficulties, for the ultimate result of that success, I have to repeat the above sentence once said, how many people will ultimately succeed it? The capital market must be to make most people's money flow to a small number of people, failure than the success of many people is absolute. "The road to success everywhere fallen places and fallen people" a determination to work for each person should have a heart ready to become a friend that owed money to 14 people to be more likely to Repudiation more than a well-known U.S. investment experts blacks were much more likely Chris Gardner
. Through thick and thin to find a willing woman is not difficult, but encountered a willingness to have a woman who carries the weight of life is not easy, if in case you are successful, you can thank her, you may find Xiaomi second wife, but if you failed, perhaps she may not be able to see you live to the final failure of that day.
"The figure must be sensitive, good at communication, nothing more"
A lot of tough job being a few words summed up, life is not so, the film was finally able to let me know that a blueprint for the more beautiful, the surface of the more glorious career, the more easy for those keen and ambitious, but in fact, it takes to be successful The effort, than those who seemingly behave much more professional. Prove once again the phrase "no love for no reason," and wanted to riches, it is impossible for no reason.
Finally, I have to admit, Will Smith's performance does have touched people's hearts place. Allow me also to those who worked hard for their ideals, but it does not obtain or no access to their own well-being of the people to pay tribute to the ideal. Because no matter how long you have worked hard for every drop of sweat are real. The losers tend to be a successful stepping stone, though very few places in the success, but who will forever be a stepping stone to do? Let us insist on the same, like Chris Gardner!
“我第壹次見我父親是在我28歲那年，那時候我就下定決心，如果我有孩子，我的孩子壹定要知道他父親是誰”
雖然我還沒有二十八歲，當然也不可能在28歲的時候第壹次見我的父親，但是看著這部影片，聽著Jaden Smith稚嫩的童聲，忽然有壹種很想要壹個小孩，然後好好照顧他的沖動。當Jaden Smith跟老爸壹起睡廁所並不埋怨，甚至還提出過可以再次去這個“洞”裏睡時；當他在雜貨鋪裏目不轉睛地盯著零食，當老爸問的時候說自己不要時等諸如此類的情節，我就會在心裏不停重復壹句話，真懂事啊，真懂事啊。
做妻子的離開，是壹種選擇，妳能指責壹個因為做銷售的老公賣不出東西，而為了家四個星期每天都連上兩班的女人麽？她的離開絕對不是貪慕虛榮那麽功利，她已經在承受很多女人未必能承受的事情了。在電話前的哽咽，更多的是壹種對生活的絕望。從影片的結尾推測，其實她只要再撐幾個月就可以了，但是這是從結果來推測，現實生活，有多少人的人生是壹本寫好大團圓結局的劇本？人生的酸甜苦辣都來源於未知。生活往往比電影復雜得多，Chris Gardner的成功只說明了這個世界有更多的人是失敗的，因為大多數人的失敗，才襯托出某些少數人的成功那麽彌足珍貴，那麽耀眼。如果滿世界都是成功的人，成功兩個字給與我們的感動就不會那麽多。我現在終於能夠理解，那些沒有辦法進行下去的婚姻，並不壹定是哪壹方十惡不赦，哪壹方要遭到唾棄，風雨同舟的人生要不要壹起走過，兩個人隨時都有選擇權。當然，做妻子的壹直以家庭和丈夫為中心，肯定是大多數男人們的希望。不過我個人以為，不管生活多麽艱難，為了孩子，都應該堅持下去的，就如同28歲才見到父親的Chris Gardner的堅持壹樣，做母親的也壹定要讓孩子知道自己是誰，不論是生活在草棚還是宮殿，壹個完整的家庭對於孩子來說是無可比擬的財富。
這部電影當然是勵誌經典，多少次山窮水盡，多少次無家可歸，最終修成正果。無處可去，睡在廁所裏羞愧痛苦的哭泣，教堂門口為了爭壹個救濟床位與流浪漢失態地爭吵、在警局關了壹夜第二天飛奔去面試還頂著頭壹天滿頭裝修沾到的油漆、……眾多辛酸而堅持不懈的生活細節，在最終被錄取的那壹刻，化作顫抖得拿不穩本子的手，有多少人不會在這壹刻與Chris Gardner壹起無聲地哭泣？可是我不知道有多少人看到影片會更堅定自己的夢想，會對銷售和股票這個行業充滿信心。所有的困難，為的是最終那個成功的結果，我要再說上文曾經說過的那句話，有多少人最終會走向成功的呢？資本市場必然是要讓大多數人的錢流向少部分人，失敗的人比成功的人多是絕對的。“在通往成功的路上，到處都是倒下的地方和倒下的人”每壹個決心努力的人都應該有心裏準備，變成那個欠朋友14塊錢都要賴賬的人的可能性要比成為美國著名黑人投資專家Chris Gardner的可能性大得多。找壹個願意同甘***苦的女人不難，而遇到壹個願意壹直背負生活重壓的女人就很不容易，如果萬壹妳成功了，妳可以感激她，妳也可能去找小蜜二奶，而妳如果失敗了，也許她未必能活到最終看到妳失敗的那壹天。
“對數字要敏感，善於交流，僅此而已”
很多艱難職業被人幾句話概括，生活不僅僅如此，這部電影讓我終於能了解到那些藍圖越美好、表面越風光的職業，越容易讓好高騖遠者趨之若鶩，而實際上，要成功所花費的心力，比那些貌似循規蹈矩的職業要多得多。再次印證那句話“沒有無緣無故的愛”，想要暴富，也不可能無緣無故。
最後，我要承認，Will Smith的表演，確實有感動人心的地方。並請允許我，向那些曾努力為自己的理想而奮鬥，卻並沒有獲得或暫時沒有獲得自己理想中幸福的人們致敬。因為無論妳努力了多久，每壹滴汗水都是真實的。而失敗者往往會成為成功者的踏腳石，雖然成功的名額少之又少，可是誰願意永遠做踏腳石呢？就讓我們像Chris Gardner壹樣堅持!